Meaningful Male Submission
… there is no love other than the deeds of love
– Jean-Paul Sartre
Actions express priorities.
– Mahatma Gandhi
To live a life of service, is to be watchful and observant. A good servant cultivates memory.
Be a student of your Mistress. Learn to anticipate her wants. That is the ideal. Example: when and how to make her favorite tea.
Do more than worship and adore her. Observe your Mistress closely. Train yourself to discern the meanings of her facial expression.
Find ways to ease her day. Do chores without being asked. Her comfort is yours.
Cheerful, spontaneous service makes your presence welcome.
Never be a “do me” masochistic. Even in vanilla life, such people are pests. She will learn what you like. If your dreams are safe and reasonable, they will come true. Never expect Mistress to violate her ethics or judgement your safety.
You worship her dominance. Appreciate her virtues and talents that are separate from the power exchange. Never let ardent gyneolatry preclude admiration of her as a human being.
Notice which treats lift her mood. When foot massages dispel sadness. When she is weary, your most valuable service may be to remain silent. She knows you care but need quiet and privacy.
Even Dommes get depressed. The toughest Mistress may need to seek counseling. Only a brave and secure submissive person can suggest this. You would not be the first.
Your love and adoration have value only if they shape your actions.