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Lecture After Spanking

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Post-Spanking F/m Domestic Discipline

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After she spanks him, this Mistress lectures her malesub. She wants to make sure he understands why he deserved punishment. To be aware that if he does not improves each future punishment spanking will be ever more painful.

Lecture concluded she orders her submale to explain what she just said to him. He must prove that he was listening carefully and attentively. If Mistress is satisfied, he will suffer additional punishment.

If spanking and remonstration have the desired effect the slave will only have undergo his daily maintenance spankings.

Originally posted 2015-06-15 07:04:32.

Mistress Steps on Slave Man’s Head

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Femdom Justice

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A lucky slave man, his Mistress is kind. If he is insolent or disobedient, she is stern and merciless.

His specific sin does not matter. He offended his Mistress.

Ordering the slave to the floor, she steps on his head and presses down. She yanks his chain. Harsh biting words convey her displeasure. Carefully paced this treatment continues for at least half an hour.

Wearing safe boots, she shoves his face from many angles. This and the metal chain combine in unremitting roughness. He does not hurt as much as if he were whipped; this punishment causes more suffering than corporal punishment.

He does love and worship his Mistress. Her words burn him with shame and regret.

Mostly he is a good slave. Once punished he is forgiven.

Such is a strict Mistress’ judgment.

Originally posted 2015-06-13 07:15:48.

Femdom Medical Sadism

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Sadistic Nurses

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One or more formidable nurses face a male weakling. This is not Barbara O’Toole’s fantasy world of mild CFNM shame.

The hospital setting is replete with blades that cut, needles that penetrate flesh. Leather straps bind the patient / subject.

There are gasses and liquids providing slow poisoning. Some may be experimental. The man becomes a subject for experiments. His frantic responses will edify and entertain.

We never know what Rubex’s sinister nurses intend. Who can doubt that the hapless man will endure hours of anguish and agony.

Mastery of suggestion and omission make Rubex the most terrifying Femdom artists of his time.

Originally posted 2015-06-13 06:50:42.

Licking the Tip of Mistress Boot

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Rapt Reverent Worship

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This is the slave man’s special reward. When uniformly pleasing his Mistress permits her slave to kiss and lick the heel of her boot.

Long ago, lonely and yearning, he had terrible fantasies of a woman shoving a stiletto heel into his mouth. She would thrust repeatedly maiming, perhaps killing him.

Like many Femdom men when he began serving a Mistress, the grosser fantasies faded. Inevitably, there is a residuum. Curious she ordered him to worship the tip of her boot.

His performance was earnest and reverent. When she ordered him to stand up, he had a certain dazed look. It a look common to submissive men, who after deep worship, must force themselves to reconnect with the quotidian world.

Moved by his honest passionate worship she decided this would be a regular reward for him.

Originally posted 2015-06-13 06:00:02.

Spank Me, Please Spank Me!

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Male Wickedness Merits Corporal Punishment

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Many submissive men see themselves as sinners. Some surely think they are genuinely wicked, bad, naughty. Some find fault with themselves because they want spankings.

They crave the pain of belt, paddle or cane. They do not want to do wrong but they feel the need to be punished.

Many submissive corporal punishment wants want to feel their Mistress’s wrath. Anger is the catalyst of ecstasy. This is sex; let logic be damned.

At the very least, there can be maintenance spankings. Mistress spanks the submissive man to make certain that he never deserves a spanking. (Masochists are clever.)

Or the man can be spanked for the crime of being merely male.

Whatever, just as long as he is spanked.

Originally posted 2015-06-06 06:30:18.

Groveling to Mistress

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Reverential Gyneolatry

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Groveling sounds ugly. In convention contexts, it implies unwholesome fear.

When a submissive male grovels before his Mistress, he temporarily dissolves his ego.

Totally surrendering himself, he offers her undiluted worship. Even though he is the one that is giving, he feels the recipient of magisterial feminine warmth.

The groveling submissive man is not pathetic. He experiences an exaltation others find in self-abusive drug use and religious fanaticism.

Originally posted 2015-06-06 05:19:32.

Patience & Understanding

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Femdom relationships are not uninterrupted bliss. Sustaining a power exchange is at least as tough as any other interpersonal relationship.

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The same quotidian problems we all face will still exist. Work stress, problems with physical health. These things can interfere with not only F/m kink but also enacting the basics of the relationship.

A sane submissive man will realize that his Domme may need to focus on things other than his submission. She may need him to be strong as well as submissive. A wise Domme will know that stressors can interfere with him being properly submissive.

D/s relationships require work just as vanilla romances and marriages.

Patience and understanding, it is a cliché but true, are needed.

Originally posted 2015-05-30 20:47:03.

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Romantic Femdom

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Loving Sadomasochism

There is nothing wrong with dark and harsh Femdom fantasies.

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The extremely brutal nature of much Femdom erotica obscures the nature of many Domme / submissive male relationships.

Intense sadomasochistic play often coexists with deep romantic love. Sadism and masochism do not preclude conventional warm affection.

Femdom relationships vary. Some are just a series of scenes. Some are mildly friendly. Others are lifetime love affairs.

Some consist of domination and submission with much or any pain.

Some are pure S&M without either being Domme or malesub.

Do not let the clichés of Femdom erotica blind you to the rich variety of life.

Originally posted 2015-05-30 05:45:22.

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Femdom Future

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Consensual Erotic Female Domination in the Future

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How is the practice of Femdom changing? How will heterosexual female domination be different in the future?

When I first discovered the Femdom subcultures, some of the ideology surprised me. The female led relationships community often seemed to be reacting to an askew view of 1950s, 1950s marriages.

Men were not just head of house (truer in sitcoms than real life) but sadists. It was if in Leave to Beaver Ward was constantly berating and beating up June. I often felt the perceived cruelty of the mid-century husbands was being used to justify the desired behavior of cruel wives.

Regardless of perceptions the last several decades has seen men and women escaping from sexist preconceptions. The process if far from finished. Surely, the generation labeled Millennials is the least sexist generation of Americans ever.

Will men feel less guilt in submission? Will they understand their submissiveness and masochism as a wholesome sexual orientation without dragging female supremacy?

Will men who wish to be feminized find their path easier?

Not being to watch the future unfold is one the unhappy aspects of being merely mortal.

Originally posted 2015-05-29 07:00:49.

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