Humiliating Submales
When I know something about myself the knowledge has no power.(In this context, anyway) When someone else knows something about me then the knowledge becomes powerful. (Will they tell on me? What will they do with that knowledge?)
The helpless manipulation a male experiences as a result of exposing or being exposed, as well as plain degradation is “Humiliation”.
Good examples include anything that reveals the submale’s nature. For example Have your male get a tan wearing a bikini top, show his nakedness to your friends, make him buy lingerie and try it on at the store, etc. The point is to get the male to agonize over the power you have over him by your understanding of him.
Send him to a girlfriends to clean house during a Superbowl party (in which he is not allowed to take part), make sure everyone knows he’d rather obey his woman than watch the game. Have him describe to your friends how you fucked him in the ass.
Anything that contrasts the male’s position and social status against the woman’s by rubbing his face in it, so to speak.
I mentioned before the effects of eliminating self-importance. Humiliation is perhaps the most direct approach. There are, other aspects that are not so obviously humiliating, but, I feel are well suited to being grouped among this topic. Always having your male refer to himself in the third person is one. Punish for the use of I, me, my, mine.
Instead, have your male use “your slave” or “your servant” in place of I. (Ma’am, may your servant use the bathroom? etc.) This consciously enforces upon the males psyche the realization that he exists more as an extension of the woman than as a distinct individual. You may want to practice listening for a while before you enforce this, as behavior modification is less successful when any infractions are accidentally overlooked.
Depravity of any material possessions, including clothing. (I’m sure you can lend him something nice if it is cold.) Forced fasting, especially good for overweight submales, is actually quite healthy. A reasonably healthy male can easily go 3-7 days with no solid food, with zero negative consequence. It’s pretty humiliating to be denied access to food. Particularly in the US where we are the breadbasket to the world. After all isn’t that the ultimate femdom; to rule over all the male’s lusts, including the appetite. (Be careful with this one though, it’s easy to start a rebellion.)
Why would a male want to be humiliated? I know in my case, when I was perhaps 11 or 12 I had a powerful crush on a girl who was in the next higher grade. Being somewhat socially inept, I used to follow her around and not say very much. Somewhat annoyed, she began to do things to discourage me. (So I perceive now. At the time I thought that’s just what girls do to boys.)
She would tease me about my appearance, remarking how I looked and acted like a girl. This evolved to “wrestling”. (Actually there was very little resistance on my part, she just pretty much pinned me down and beat me up, then teased me in front of her friends that I couldn’t even take a girl.) She even made me push a penny down the street with my nose.
One time, after an argument about whether I really was a boy or a girl, she and a girlfriend bullied me into pulling my pants down and playing with my dick enough to make it hard. This was in her backyard and lasted only 1 or 2 minutes, but was one of the defining moments of my life. I was feeling so many things. Embarrassment, shame, horny, submissive, vulnerable, excited, it was such a rush to be exposed in front of them, they carried on as though it were perfectly normal, that I was the abnormal one for making a fuss.
It was so humiliating realizing that they knew things about the way my body worked, things I didn’t know. She actually had to explain what “jack-off” meant. I did what she told me, I dry stroked my cock and it felt so good, the hormones were just flooding my system.
I had little understanding of sex. I had never yet ejaculated; I didn’t even know what it was. (But found out in a big way not long after that experience. When it happened I actually thought I broke my dick because it puked up all this nasty mess and made my erection go away afterward. “Holy shit!, now I’ve done it”, I thought.)
Even now it is kind of embarrassing when I think, a girl taught me to masturbate! Humiliation, for me, always lets me relive the feelings I experienced then. It is also, definitely something to do with the hormones released as a result of that state (humiliation). I don’t know if it’s adrenaline or what, but it is definitely an exhilarating sensation.
These are some of the underlying factors I perceive as a male. They are the underlying factors I believe to reflect my own personal psychological reasons for finding the mentioned activities to be such a powerful stimulant to Jing. (why it gets me so hot) I am sure it is so for other men as well.
I would be most interested in hearing from women who also find this arousing and some of the deeper reasons why they think that might be so, to hear the woman’s point of view. In the future I intend to include a more specific listing of techniques.
I, again, would be interested in hearing from anyone that has any activities they would like to see included in that list.
(By Apolloinaire)
Originally posted 2016-01-10 06:02:09.
