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Femdom Torture Rack

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Man’s Body Stretched & Bent

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A man stretched on the torture rack. Is the woman a sadist or just teaching the helpless male a lesson?

Historical adventure movies often featured men being stretched on the rack in some deep dark dungeon. The professional torturer smiled and combined patronizing patter as he moved the gear one more notch. Hot coals might also be burn the man’s skin.

He was a hero. Never did the horrible pain force him to confess.

The young masochistic imagined himself being stretched on a torture rack. The gender of the torturer determined by his sexual orientation. (Bisexual people are lucky.)

Sadly racks dislocate limbs, destroy connective tissue. They are dangerous.

Being stretched on a rack by a gloating sadist will remain a fantasy. Some masochistic dreams are best in the imagination.

Originally posted 2015-05-16 23:45:47.

Woman Takes Out Frustrations on Slave Man

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Mistress Punishes Slave for Her Bad Mood

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Every masochistic guy fantasizes about wrathful women. Any strong emotion that makes a woman want to hurt her slave man suffices. Anger is erotic.

Quite selfishly, men imagine a Mistress who has a rotten day. When she comes home, she exorcises her frustrations by tormenting her submissive man or male slave. He pays for the sins of others and the day’s quotidian annoyances.

Submissive men want to be victims. It is victimhood without unfairness. How magnificent she seems as she makes a man suffer. He feels that this is his purpose in life. Pain is another form of submission.

(It is impossible to disentangle the degree to which pain induces deeper feelings of submission and submissiveness stimulates masochism.)

Using a slave as a target for real world frustrations is warned against in many BDSM guidebooks. Our libidos prefer to remain illiterate.

Originally posted 2015-05-16 06:45:42.

Submissive Men Clean the Bathroom

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Sadistic Bathroom Game

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A Mistress with an exceptionally spacious bathroom supervises her slave man. He crawls across the floor scrubbing the tiles. Once that task is finished, he will polish the floor. This is part of the slave’s Saturday morning routine.

Mistress enjoys seeing her nude male slave working at her command. There is pure pleasure in observing obedience to her will. She enjoys these bathroom sessions. For her it is a sadistic game.

She will find spots that are not sufficiently clean. She will punish the slave with her riding crop and demand he scrub the area again. It was perfectly clean. But he dare not argue.

Later she will don her strap-on dildo. She will sodomize her slave man. He must continue to scrub as if nothing is happening. That is impossible. She will punish him more harshly for this failing.

Mistress and her slave man look forward to Saturdays. Each has a good time.

Originally posted 2015-05-16 06:15:03.

Femdom Obedience

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How Much Honest Obedience Can You Offer a Mistress

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Submissive men indulge themselves with them fantasy images of chivalry. A submissive man speaks of giving a Mistress his heart, mind, body: each a synecdoche for the surrender of himself to a dominant woman.

The submissive male’s ultimate gift is his obedience. This matters more than if he is masochist. It takes precedence over his feelings about sissification. No fetish is of more importance.

Obedience is the one true currency of his submission. Does he need to offer it? Is it something he trades in exchange for something from his Mistress? He needs the self-insight to know which is true.

Both orientations can work. It depends on the Mistress. A submissive man must be self-aware and honest.

There is no shame in having a fetish that must be satisfied. It is part of a man’s sexual orientation. He can control this no more than he can which gender he enjoys sex.

Understand what you need. Find the appropriate Mistress. It is to her you can honestly offer obedience.

Originally posted 2015-05-15 11:00:56.

Femdom Giantesses

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Fantasies of Gigantic Dominant Women

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Giantess fantasies surprised me. In a mid-sixties science fiction exploitation movie, Village of the Giants, a guy pressed against the breast of a sexy young giantess. That the scene might be a sexual fantasy never occurred to me until the discovery of Femdom artwork featuring giant women.

The first Femdom giantess drawing I saw showed the women eating normal sized men. The guys looked like candy bars.

Milo Manara’s Gullivera is a beautiful example of giantess erotica. (It has no actual Femdom content.)

Giant Mistresses is an active subgenre of Femdom art. Men are often crushed. Some show affection. The giant women sometime employ the males as sex toys.

Giantess fantasies are unrealizable. Hopefully, that sheer impossibility prevents too much frustration.

Originally posted 2015-05-14 20:00:20.

Femdom Public Humiliation

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Shamed, Embarrassed in Public

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Public humiliation is surely the most common emotionally masochistic dream.

Public chastisement or discipline is an unequivocal expression of a woman’s power over a submissive man. The whole world sees his inferior status.

Many submissive guys desire to be shamed. Public embarrassment is a low voltage fantasy of degradation.

Being put in your place by your Mistress as others watch is an experience that would never fade form the punished man’s mind.

Originally posted 2015-05-14 07:09:07.

Submissive Men Wash the Dishes

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Man is Household Servant

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Performing household chores, that this is a common male fantasy image of female dominant, female led relationships might seem funny. The men are fantasizing prosaic household tasks.

Male as household servant is the most wholesome Femdom fantasy I can think of. It is not violent. It is plausible. It is genuinely submissive. Making another’s life easier is an honorable goal of all friendships and loving relationships.

Not that the Femdom fantasy images are necessarily free from sadomasochism. Mistress is strict. She finds particles of dust, maybe just a fingerprint and punishes her submissive houseboy or maidservant for imperfect service. This can be played as an F/m game. It depends on the couple.

A man washing dishes while a dominant woman observes seem to be the most common image of Femdom domestic service. Does this descend from some early evocative F/m picture that has influenced later artists? Is it an easy way for an artist to depict the Femdom power exchange?

Why is dishwashing an iconic image of male submission instead of mopping floors? Perhaps it is that dishwashing is a daily chore.

Mistress (Wife) watches her slave man clean the dishes. In some drawings, she merely is taking pleasure in his humble service. Others show her with an instrument of punishment in hand, ready to correct every mistake. (Hopefully not while he holds a dish.)

In the example picture, the woman is pulling the man’s ear. This must be to punish him for his erect penis so visible under the apron. He would have been aroused by his Mistress’ presence, not by scrubbing a dish.

Scrubbing floors on hands and knees is probably the second most common Femdom household chore.

Originally posted 2015-05-11 11:45:44.

Femdom Leash Laws

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Slave Man on Mistress’ Leash

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How moving it is the first time a woman puts a man in a collar and attaches a leash. She owns him.

Every man with a slave’s heart delights in the leash. It is as much a symbol of a woman’s domination as a device to limit the man’s behavior.

She may treat him as a pet. He will eat treats from her hand. He may have to beg and whine for them. Maybe they will enjoy a game of fetch.

If he is very lucky and a private place is available, his Mistress may take him on a walk. Naked, he crawls on his hands and knees at her side. She rests and permits him to lick her shoes while she sits.

Or she may yank on his leash, a forcible reminder of his status as her inferior.

The leash is a simple thing, rich in potential uses.

Originally posted 2015-05-10 22:28:14.

Slave Men Belong On Hands & Knees

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Naked & Kneeling: Slave’s Ideal Position

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Being on hands and knees makes every motion an act of submission.

Except when it is necessary for him to rise, the submissive man remains in a subordinate posture.

Most couples limit this to scenes. Many mundane, practical activities require action. Some scenes last more than a few hours or even a day.

If a slave man is going to be on his hands and needs for extended periods elbow and kneepads should be bought. You do not need to buy ones sold by a fetish vendor. Amazon or a sporting goods store will have what you need.

Originally posted 2015-05-10 21:01:17.

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Financial Femdom

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Money Mistresses

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Financial Femdom: does it entail the most risky form of male submission?

Money is a necessity. Without money, you go hungry and have no place to live. Lots of money confers status. It is the most admired sign of ability. Wealth is a form of superiority.

In a capitalist society, financial Femdom is unsurprising. A man transmits something of unequivocal value to a woman. Vanilla men spend money on girlfriends and wives to demonstrate how important they are to him.

A man addicted to financial domination can damage his life. He does not have physical scars. He may impoverish himself. Destroy himself professionally. If he is married, giving money to a money Mistress is not going to be forgiven.

Some financial Dommes warn men to give sensibly. They report that some men have disregarded this advice to their own detriment.

I have never known anyone with this fetish. Long ago, I read a blog by a financial slave. He sounded addicted but you never know whether people are reporting or spinning fantasies.

Originally posted 2015-05-10 20:01:32.

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