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Outer Bondage Reflects Internal Assent
Chains are external expressions of the limits you must accept in a life of submission. Mistress determines where you are or may go. Even how you use your body is at her sole discretion.
The real chains are inside you. Your commitment to serve and obey your Mistress is what chains you.
Your chastity is the surest sign that you care more about her pleasure than your own. Your frustration is a real form of worship.
Originally posted 2015-08-30 19:20:50.
Woman’s Pleasure
Male chastity, how much lore, psychological theorizing, gender philosophy there is. How phallocentric, so much about keeping man locked is really men talking about their penises.
The best reason for enforced male chastity? The woman likes to keep the man chaste. Wife, girlfriend, Mistress, Domme – whatever word you use for the woman in your life, if she wants you locked up, there is no better reason.
Her delight is sufficient. It does not matter if orgasm denial makes you a better man. Nor if you think, it is some sort of gender justice (all you guys who are ashamed of being male).
Her pleasure is all that matters. What you get out of it is adiaphorous.
Of course you may want to argue. Go ahead.
Originally posted 2015-08-28 07:30:50.
Worshipful Male Chastity
My Mistress is my Goddess and Keyholder,
With lock and key Mistress Owner and Mistress Owner alone controls my sex.
The tube that encloses my penis is a reminder that
Her love and the lock shall shield me from any relief otHer than Hers.
Yeah, though I cannot have any sexual relief my self,
I shall be an instrument of Her pleasure.
With massages and orgasms I shall bring pleasure to Her days,
And I will dwell in the world of the horny,
My hands and my tongue shall bring warmth and pleasure to Her world,
And I, a horny husband and lover, shall kneel as I massage Her feet.
Though I might plead and beg for sexual relief.
With touch. tease and denial Mistress Owner shall give me more reason to love Her.
I shall come to enjoy Her pleasures as if they were my own.
Though I beg for relief Mistress Owner shall smile and say “not now”.
I shall endure the pain and pressure while awaiting the gift of Her key.
Though my penis shall swell within its prison I shall feel no relief.
I shall with touch and tongue work to make Her want me more than ever.
Mistress Owner shall smile and say “once more please.”
Though at night I am awakened by my penis seeking escape from its prison,
I can only arise, and pee and pray for relief from the pressure of the tube.
I must sit to pee, this shall be reminder of my dependence on Her love.
While dreams of Her LOVE the key shall haunt me all of the days of the week.
When Sunday comes and after a massage and stimulation
Mistress Owner might kneel and release my penis from its prison,
And I shall give Her a reason with strong throbbing orgasms
That bring joy to us both as we know that my captivity was not in vain.
I shall thank Her for the control of my sex once more,
And I shall stand naked before Her as once my penis is imprisoned,
And with a loud click of the lock my sex shall be Her’S once more.
Originally posted 2015-08-26 20:23:09.
The Ultimate Test of Male Submission
For this young Domme female supremacy begins with male chastity.
Only by surrendering his sexuality to her control does he prove his genuine submission.
Under enforced chastity, her delight replaces his pleasure.
As a controlled man, he learns to his desires are irrelevant. Mistress Owner’s wishes are all that he should be mindful of.
He will still think of sex but total sexual slavery will prevent his lust from causing misbehavior.
Perhaps he will give him a rare reward, a few minutes of guided masturbation. It might be her will that his chastity device remain locked for the remainder of his life as her slave.
To regain sexual freedom he would be required to leave her service. It is the ultimate test of his surrender.
Originally posted 2015-08-24 20:26:22.
Genital Electroshock Device
Imagine the perfect male chastity device.
Able to detect when he is trying to have an erection it administers a mild electric shock. Or it might automatically crush the slave man’s testicles.
If impotence is desired, the slave man can be eventually conditioned to never have erections.
The mechanism might also serve as a long distance slave controller. Mistress Owner can summon her slave by pressing a button on her remote control. A mild shock will summon the slave.
Stay at home slaves can be monitored using cameras. Mistress can check from her office. If a slave is being lazy, she can use her remote to send a stinging reprimand.
Extended electroshock punishment session could replace spankings.
The electronic chastity and punishment device will add to any evening in the home dungeon.
Originally posted 2015-08-22 06:08:30.
The Longer You Suffer in Chastity the Better You Obey
Does the anguish of extreme enforced chastity foster more perfect obedience in a submissive man?
The sight of his Mistress’ body makes him silently shiver with frustrated longing. Women on the street, how he yearns for them. Each one is a goddess. Even if one of the women wanted him, he carries a metal prison in his pants.
Being locked in chastity is a sweet torment, the pleasure of his natural wrestling with the pain of denial.
Only unfailing obedience, never hesitating, without questions will bring him temporary freedom.
Pleased with his submission his Mistress allows him an orgasm. For at least one night, he will sleep peacefully without tossing and turning.
Originally posted 2015-08-21 06:25:05.
OUR (Consensual) CHASTITY GAME
By Shilo
I’ve read way too much fiction and fantasy and maybe even some small percentage of true stories about guys kept in chastity by their female Significant Other (wives, girlfriends, Mistresses….).
This is my TRUE story about the CONSENSUAL Chastity Game that my wife, Merry, and I play.
First a little background:
Merry likes to have her man in chastity just to have the control, for the power exchange. BUT, she enjoys intercourse, with me, a LOT, much more than getting just oral sex. So having me locked up is like a difficulty for her, too.
I like to be in chastity to give up the control. And, I’ve had a nearly lifelong problem of chronic masturbation, even preferring it to intercourse, to the point that I have difficulty in cumming during intercourse, because the stimulation is so much different than when I masturbate. I want to re-train myself to be able to consistently cum during intercourse, and curb/stop masturbation, thereby increasing my desire for intercourse.
I work a concentrated week: 15 hours Sunday night to Monday morning, then 11 hours Monday night to Tuesday morning, then 13 hours Tuesday night to Wednesday morning, with a 45 minute-to-an-hour commute to and from work. So I am ‘dead’ in my hours in-between shifts, and we consider these black-out days in regard to unlocking.
Our Game starts in the hour or so I’m getting ready to go to work, Sunday afternoon. I lock up. At some point thereafter, Merry uses the Random Number Generator program on her desktop, and gets a number.
The range on that program is set from 3 to 10.
3 means three days, the following Wednesday. 4 means Thursday. 5 means Friday. 6 means Saturday. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday are ‘blacked out’. 7 means the next Wednesday. 8 means next Thursday, 9 means the next Friday, 10 means the next Saturday, which would be 13 days from the day we started, and the longest time we would go with me locked up.
She knows the number of days, and does not tell me.
It is expected that I provide her oral gratification at least once each day, whether she initiates it or I do.
At some time, determined by her during my available days, she directs me to … either immediately, or she might say, an hour from now, or at some other time… get unlocked (by her), take a shower, and meet her in the bedroom.
SIDE NOTE: she has allergies to metal, such as stainless steel and chrome. When I remove a metallic device, it is necessary for me to wash thoroughly in soap and hot water, before making genital to genital contact with her.. I own a number of devices, all ‘cheap’. My two silicone ones aren’t worth a darn, one of polycarbonate still has metal posts in it, and I used to have a decent polycarb CB-6000, until I left it in a hotel room in St Louis. Thus, the need for a shower.
Showered, and naked, I go to the bedroom.
Activities commence with me providing her with oral, until she indicates readiness by grabbing me by the armpits and pulling me up and onto her.
Her left hand guides my penis inside her, and, to be blunt, we fuck….
And either:
She allows me to continue until I have a happy ending, or my erection fades away (which used to happen quite often, but has been happening less and less since we started this).
OR she says, “Stop” as this is NOT the day indicated for me to be ‘done’
And I have to get re-locked up, and wait another day, at least.
If it IS my Freedom Day, and I do not cum during the intercourse, I remain unlocked, so that we might, and usually do, try again later, the next day, whatever works. I am allowed two failed attempts to continue. The third failed attempt is treated like a ‘cum’, with an immediate lock up and a new Game. If time does not allow a third attempt before I am getting ready for work on Sunday, a new lock-up Game begins.
IF I DO cum, we immediately start a new Game, with the period of lock-up being a minimum of 48 hours, with my work days still blacked out.
So if I cum on a Wednesday, it’s possible I get another opportunity on Friday or Saturday, if the Random Number comes up a 2 or 3.
If I cum on a Thursday, it’s possible I get another opportunity on Saturday, if the Random Number is a 2.
If I come on Friday or Saturday, due to the black-out on my work days, I will have to wait until at least the following Wednesday.
I think that covers it.
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Originally posted 2015-08-02 17:18:59.
Orgasm Denial: Proof of Submission
Accepting enforced chastity proves that a man is genuinely submissive.
Orgasm denial is a surrender of will and pleasure. Subverting your lust, continuing to obey even as your horny inner self continually whines in your ear, is an ongoing demonstration of willingness to obey.
Many men talk submission. Few can live what they preach. Enforced male chastity is an easy test.
Your Mistresses watches you, she can see the erotic desperation you try to hide. She smiles. There is simple pleasure in observing a man’s obedience. Your sexual suffering is amusing. She may reward you and yet torment you with caresses and kisses.
Imprisoning your penis in shining plastic to steel is a prelude. More exciting Femdom will follow.
You are exchanging orgasms for rare ecstasies.
Originally posted 2015-07-31 20:44:33.
Creating the Perfect Boyfriend
Artist?
How happy this young woman looks. Her boyfriend’s chastity device arrived in the mail. She will take control of his sexuality.
She smiles, thinking of how frustrated her boyfriend will become. She has always been an affectionate girlfriend. Now she will not be able to keep her hands off him. Her kisses will make him squirm. Often she will not wear clothes when at home.
Erotic tease of her boyfriend is her new hobby.
How respectful he will become. He will cater to her every wish. Strive always to please her.
He works to earn temporary respite. She will occasionally allow him his moments of pleasure. Then the steel tube will lock back in place.
She smiles in anticipation of training him to be the perfect boyfriend.
Originally posted 2015-07-24 12:36:50.
