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Chaste Pride

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Should a man take pride in how long he has gone without an orgasm?

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Men post the number of days they have been locked in a chastity device on their blogs. There is certainly nothing wrong with demonstrating your willpower. Positive reinforcement may enable the man to continue in chastity for a longer period.

Some of these men are single.

For men in a relationship chaste pride is appropriate only if his chastity gives the woman pleasure.

Some men practice a sort of chastity machismo. No harm really but may prompt laughter in others.

Originally posted 2015-05-26 23:30:41.

Chastity & Sexual Self-Disgust

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Odd how many submissive men write as though their sexuality is something criminal.

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It seems that everything wrong with the world stems from male lust. Lock up all men’s penises and Utopia will appear.

Chastity is an instant fixit for all social, political and economic problems. Men who can have sex make better husbands.

Does all this stem from genuine sexual self-disgust? Is it just a crazy kink? I do not know.

I always picture these guys desperately masturbating to fantasies of being forbidden to ever masturbate or ejaculate ever again.

Originally posted 2015-05-24 20:01:32.

Male Chastity for Woman’s Pleasure

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One of the common reasons for locking a man in a chastity device is enhancing sex with his wife or girlfriend.

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The locked man cannot masturbate. Not being able to orgasm when whim moves him, he becomes more vigorous, passionate lover when unlocked.

Even people outside of Femdom practice this form of chastity. It is something of a sex game or mental aphrodisiac than a form of female domination.

Originally posted 2015-05-24 16:49:12.

Marital Male Chastity

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Male chastity practiced in marriage to force the husband to behave properly.

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By keeping her husband chaste wives insure that their husband will perform all of his chores in a timely manner.

Husbands will feel stronger sexual drive when free of the chastity device and focus on satisfying his wife sexually.

This is a standard practice in all Femdom marriages. Chaste husband are more humble and obedient hoping to win release from their chastity device and achieve an orgasm.

Originally posted 2015-05-22 19:26:35.

How Did Enforced Chastity Improve Your Life?

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Benefits of Mandatory Male Chastity

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It is often said that enforced male chastity will ensure that men adopt a healthier lifestyle, become more productive. Obviously, the guidance of a woman is necessary for these good outcomes.

The chastity devices force the man to sit when he pees. I am neutral in the Sitzpinklers vs Stehpinklers debate.

Unwanted pregnancy is not an outcome of male chastity that I had ever considered. It alone would improve a woman’s future life more than anything else.

Mostly I make this post in the hopes that you will use the comment form. I would like you to tell me how male chastity has improved your life. How did you come to be locked in the chastity device?

Originally posted 2015-05-16 06:05:45.

Permanent Perpetual Male Chastity

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100% Lifetime Male Orgasm Denial

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Naamaire

There was at least one woman I knew that sought a slave man that she would keep forever chaste. He would never, under any conditions experience an orgasm. His penis perpetually encased, never again used for anything other than urination.

So lifestyle, lifetime total male orgasm denial is not just a man’s fantasy.

There is a limiting factor to this scenario. After a sufficiently long period of chastity, a man’s sexual desires will decrease. Maybe even vanish.

Most people picture 100% male orgasm denial as a life of tease and denial.

If a man ceases to care that he chaste, does enforced chastity lose its appeal?

Lack of male sexual appetite may be a desired goal. Erotic indifference may lead to boredom. Chastity will no longer reinforce submission.

The most effective male chastity regimen may include infrequent orgasms. Perhaps a day of freedom in which he is allowed to repeatedly rediscover what he has surrendered. It would take trial and error to learn the most effective protocol to bring back his libido.

Something this complex does not lend itself to fantasies.

Originally posted 2015-05-13 06:56:25.

Women Who Love Male Chastity

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Distant Mistresses & Professional Keyholders

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Naamaire

How many submissive men seek a woman who will enforce chastity? How many search for a Mistress Keyholder?

These submissive men often explain to women that taking control of male sexuality empowers them. The women may use sex to motivate and punish men. But only lightly, not as dominant women. They do not seek submissive men. Arguments suggesting that it will improve their lives have no effect.

Do not waste years seeking to convert women who will never change. You must seek for a woman who enjoys chastity. You may need to face that you are not going to find a local chastity mistress.

Many men and women practice female domination over long distances with real satisfaction. You may be able to find a long distance keyholder on the web.

Women and men do enjoy long distance chastity, and tease and denial. Some used to participate in chastity forums. This may still be true Forums do make good places to start. Likeminded men may be able to share ideas.

Fetish dating sites should always be given a real chance. They certain work for some people. But it can take a long time to find that right woman.

Online ProDommes act as chastity keyholders. Many men take genuine pleasure in sessions with their distant professional dominatrix.

If you can afford it, you should consider giving an online chastity Mistress a try. If you do not find the experience satisfying, you can quit.

Be mindful that like car mechanics and hair stylists not all ProDommes are equally gifted. Failure with one does not preclude success with another professional dominatrix.

Originally posted 2015-05-09 23:14:42.

Penis Whipping

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Training a Penis With Pain

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Bill Ward

Male chastity is the most common method for changing a slave man’s relationship with his penis. Penis whipping can aid in reprogramming male sexuality.

Penises are sturdy. They can accept much rough treatment without permanent injury.

Every man associates his penis with pleasure. Penile pleasure, despite the brief duration, is the greatest source of joy for many men.

Use your whip and cane to cause the man’s penis agony. Prolonged and frequent phallic torment will cause him to think of is penis as a source of suffering. Mistress decides if he will enjoy an orgasm or suffer more penis pain. This gives her deeper control of his sexuality than chastity alone.

He will begin to see his Mistress’ control of him as absolute. He will strive to be a perfect slave if only to prevent more penis punishment. He will also know that in being the best possible slave man he may earn the reward of a rare orgasm.

Extreme gynarchists who disapprove of all male sexuality may use this form of conditioning to disconnect the man from physical sexual pleasure. He may enjoy secondary sexual pleasure by giving his Mistress orgasms. Some cruel gynarchic Mistresses will choose to experiment with making the male afraid of having an erection.

In the short term, punished penises will not need chastity devices.

Originally posted 2015-05-05 06:37:40.

Male Chastity: Increasing Quality of Lovemaking

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Male Chastity: Making a Man a More Attentive & Careful Lover

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Sexual denial will make a man more ardent for sex. That is indisputable.

That enforced chastity makes a man a better lover seems less certain. A man’s lovemaking will improve if it becomes a condition for release.

Male chastity seems most often quantified by frequency of sex. Quality seems a better determinant. When released the man must be more mindful of the woman’s pleasure. This is not just a matter of lasting longer.

The man must be attentive to her sounds and small bodily responses during lovemaking. He must be a more intelligent, thoughtful lover. The effect of chastity should increase her enjoyment of each minute as well as give her more minutes of loving attention from the man.

An insightful and thoughtful man will enjoy more frequent release. The better able he is to make her happy the more she will want that happiness.

Originally posted 2015-05-04 20:16:48.

First Date With Potential Submissive Man

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Finding Submissive Males to Date

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A member of the Chastity Academy offers this tip:

You may not want to waste your time with males who have no submissive potential.

When a young man asks for a date, tell him you only go out with men when they are wearing chastity devices. Most men will reject this condition. A male agrees may be worth cultivating as a submissive.

You cannot expect a male who has just met you to buy a chastity device. One option is to keep one of the lesser device on hand that fits most men. But that he actually be in chastity on that first date is not important. His willingness to comply with the demand is all that is really matters at the first step.

If you continue to date, he will buy the chastity device you specify.

Originally posted 2015-05-03 23:51:37.

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