How Much Honest Obedience Can You Offer a Mistress
Submissive men indulge themselves with them fantasy images of chivalry. A submissive man speaks of giving a Mistress his heart, mind, body: each a synecdoche for the surrender of himself to a dominant woman.
The submissive male’s ultimate gift is his obedience. This matters more than if he is masochist. It takes precedence over his feelings about sissification. No fetish is of more importance.
Obedience is the one true currency of his submission. Does he need to offer it? Is it something he trades in exchange for something from his Mistress? He needs the self-insight to know which is true.
Both orientations can work. It depends on the Mistress. A submissive man must be self-aware and honest.
There is no shame in having a fetish that must be satisfied. It is part of a man’s sexual orientation. He can control this no more than he can which gender he enjoys sex.
Understand what you need. Find the appropriate Mistress. It is to her you can honestly offer obedience.
Originally posted 2015-05-15 11:00:56.